Today is wohoo a sunday. Not to be mentioned what i did as it is matched to the title post. As usual, when i rose from the bed, it is already the mid of the day. So, i wasted half day of dreaming of something i wasnt supposed to. But making dream is one of my speciality.
And then, small aunt family came. It been so long till i really attended a family gathering. If i were to be excused from these gathering last time because i am not around or busy with works, now, i experienced the idea of the simple sunday gathering. You need nothing but just you and them. It been so long ever since i am able to laze around again for a family movie in the living room and together with these people.
Updating each other about how themselves and to bring up old matters. I think when people get old, it is nice to dig out old memories. Old memories that catch the mind after 20 or 30 years long. And by the end of it, we were actually laughing at what we thought of.
Looking into other success is not what I enjoyed doing. Maybe because i am not one of them. I am still in the mid of thinking what is success in my own definition. Define success as time goes by. Is that this easy? Happy is a success? Thinking hard on that.
Case of the day : Marriage
How marriage affect the life of a person? What actually meant by marriage? Love or responsibility? I see friends get marriage early and get their first kid year ago. If back then, i will think, they are kinda fool to tie themselves down. But, if they really have a happy family behind, why not? If you not happy with it then leave it. That's the simple mindset of people nowadays. So divorcee happened a lot MORE
Kinship. Haha.. ( responsible )
Grandma always said, you must get marry as you are a girl. But grandma, not everyone will meet the one.. Ask me back when i am 30 or 40, i think my mindset will change. One thing i love about people's wedding is.. the wedding photos. Regardless who is the main character of the frame, it is the charisma of the photo that matter.
This is the marriage that i wanted to see so much. Full of energy and of course arguments. Two person of different character will create that kind of feel. Imagine you were to faced your mirror image everyday, you gotta be so damn bored. But if your other half is someone that is the other way round of you, you may get to be in different emotion everyday. Just like everyday is a new day. Maybe you will get tired but a it will definitely different and we called that sparkles. Of course, two people of same kind will have happiness in their own way. Just my preference. ;p
And let's see same sex marriage. The originality of human evolution. We have girls and boys. Yet, there will be some girls dont want to be a girl and a boy dont want to be a boy. The old people back then said, it is against the law. But what law that really said we cant do so? Is there any particular law? Or their own preference? It is unfair to the people that fell in love. Why do they have to faced the criticism when what they want is just their happiness? X and Y does really matter that much? Yet, to be fair, it is actually legal nowadays and maybe in 50 years, a trend so that the child of them will be able to proudly present their papa 1 and papa 2. Congrats for them.. ( haha.. I still like my korean guy actors much )
I wanted to attend a wedding dinner soon. Anyone have the plan on mind? Haha.
to be continued............
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